“You can’t blame other people for how you show up. That is rank immaturity. You can’t say, “Well, you made me do it! You made me say it!” No, it was already in you. They just brought it to the surface, and maybe God brought them into your life just to let you know this is an area in which it will be really helpful if you grew up!”

From PERFECTING THE ART OF BOUNCING BACK by Graham Cooke